Sister Vivienne Kellett
1940 – 2022
Born: 12th March 1940
Entered Religious Life: 6th October 1958
Died: 27th January 2022
Vivienne Kellett daughter of Jack and May Kellett was born on 12th March 1940. She entered the Religious Sisters of Charity on 6th October 1958 and was professed on 2nd May 1961. She had two older sisters Marie and Gloria and a brother Norbert. She was very close to them and to her nieces, nephews and extended family.
Her early years were spent in education ministry in Walkinstown, Roma, Walthamstow, Cappagh, Mountjoy Street, Cork and Milltown. Vivienne was very artistic and musical, gifts that no doubt were much appreciated by staff and students. During her time in Cork, she set up a prayer group and is remembered by participants for her devotion to the scriptures.
Having completed a Pastoral Ministry programme, Vivienne was missioned to the English/Scottish Province in 1985, to a completely new ministry – that of Parish Sister. She was assigned to Our Lady’s Parish in Birkenhead. With some help from Sr. Pauline Smith, Vivienne took on the children’s liturgy with great commitment. This work was further developed into a parish catechetical programme.
In 1986, Vivienne was missioned to Macclesfield where she worked with the Parish Priest, Fr. Michael Cupit, to develop a whole catechetical programme which included sacramental preparation, scripture interpretation and the setting up of a printing press.
From 1994 to 2015, Vivienne continued her pastoral ministry in Birmingham. She became involved in a local charity, Anawim, that supported women in prostitution. This included night street support and individual assistance with court attendance. Vivienne was later part of a group who set up classes for children who were excluded from school. This was very beneficial to both children and staff. She was a very caring person and had a great capacity to understand the sufferings of others. Unfortunately, the programme was discontinued due to lack of funding.
In her latter years in Birmingham, Vivienne lived in sheltered accommodation and held a weekly prayer group for the residents. Parishioners spoke of her as ‘having opened the scriptures’ for them. Vivienne was very much part of the English/Scottish Province being, at one time, on the Ongoing Formation Team, the Parish Sisters Association and the Province Spirituality group. Being a gifted, artistic and musical person, it was sad to observe her growing loss of self and her difficulty in communicating with others. Caring Sisters and other good friends enabled her to remain in the English/Scottish Province for a little longer. She was sadly missed when she moved back to Ireland.
As Vivienne’s memory began to deteriorate, she was missioned to St. Patrick’s Kilkenny on 6th May 2015. On 16th November 2017, she was transferred to Our Lady’s Hospice, where she was beautifully cared for in Anna Gaynor unit. She died peacefully on 27th January 2022. Her funeral Mass was fittingly celebrated by Fr. Bernard Lowe cp in the chapel of Our Lady’s Mount, Harold’s Cross. Fr. Bernard was joined by Fr. Pat Brown who worked with Vivienne in Birmingham. Sr. Úna O’ Neill gave a beautiful reflection on Vivienne’s life and a small family group sang “There are Many Rooms in my Father’s House” by Liam Lawton, based on John 14. Although Covid restrictions on attendance were lifted, live-streaming of the liturgy facilitated all who could not be present, especially Sisters and friends in the English/Scottish Province.
Sr. Vivienne is buried in the Community Cemetery in Donnybrook. May she rest in peace.
We are standing this morning on holy ground: the place where Mary Aikenhead spent the last years of her life as an invalid – a woman whose vision, courage and practical common-sense gave birth to our Congregation and to our long and graced history of service of the poor, the weak and the vulnerable.Today we are celebrating the life of Sr. Joseph Helen, a woman who cherished that charism, serving those in need with fidelity and generosity, and who also spent the last years of her life here in the Hospice.
The readings this morning are both comforting and challenging.In the Gospel Jesus speaks of himself as the Way, the Truth and the Life.He invites us to put our hope and our trust in Him and in His promise to be with us, steadily and constantly as we try each day to walk his way, to speak his truth, to live his life.It is an apt description of the life and commitment of the woman whom we are remembering here.
In her 103 years of life, Sr. Joseph Helen lived through historical and global changes that are impossible for us to imagine.She experienced seismic shifts in Church and state.She witnessed wars and famines on a world scale.Through all of those yearsshe remained steadfastly faithful to the constant core of who she was as an RSC.She was born Dorothy Cunningham in Ballacolla in Portlaoise on 1st July 1908. She was an only girl, with one brother, and was much loved by all.Her childhood and youth reflected the calm ordinariness of children’s lives at that time.Following her degree studies she spent some months caring for her mother who was ill and then secured a job teaching in Mountjoy St. School in Dublin.Her father was not impressed!His comment on hearing of that place was:“It doesn’t sound like much of a job but you like working for the poor and you’ve always been good at it”.She remained there until she entered the Sisters of Charity on 5th October 1931.
In the first reading we are told that God gives strength to the wearied; that those who hope in Yahweh will soar like eagles, run and no grow weary, walk and never tire.That was so true of J. Helen throughout her active life.She was missioned back to Mountjoy St. after her religious profession and taught there for 12 years.Following a year’s further study in Scotland, she went to teach in a Secondary Modern school inWalthamstow in England for a year.And then came the call to be one of our three founding Sisters of the Zambian Region, or Northern Rhodesia as it then was.
In 1948 they set sail, travelling for four weeks by boat – The Athlone Castle -rail, bus and lorry before arriving in Chisekesi Siding on a dark morning on 28th October 1948. Sr. Helen kept a diary of the journey which was printed for the 50th anniversary and which gives a fascinating insight into their journey and how they coped with, what was for them, such a strange and almost ‘alien’ environment.
One can only imagine the anticipation and anxiety, the challenge and the loneliness, the wonder and the doubts that marked that journey and her first months in Zambia.It was a place and people that she came to love and cherish.She committed herself to the education of girls and brought the gift of knowledge and freedom to countless women who still remember her with gratitude and appreciation.There are many past pupils with sad hearts in Zambia at the moment – their sadness at her passing tempered only by their gratitude that she is free from the debilities of her age.And that mourning is echoed this morning among our sisters there in the Region and here in this Chapel in the sisters who lived with her and shared her life for those 30 years.
Her first 15 years in Zambia were spent in the Teacher training college run by the Jesuits and began her work in promoting the education of girls – beginning with the setting up of a girls secondary boarding school in Roma in Lusaka.Nine years later she was appointed Regional Leader and on Independence day 1978she was conferred with the Order of Distinguished Service for 30 years of outstanding service to the people of Zambia in the fields of Education and Social work.
While she was a formidable woman in many ways, with high standards and expectations, her devotion to her religious life and her commitment to education was recognized and appreciated by all who knew her.She was a strict disciplinarian, spoke the truth without apology and demanded very high standards.At the same time her heart was compassionate and her generosity and hospitality were known and appreciated by all.
Like all of us, Helen has known suffering and joy, tears and laughter, pain and happiness, loneliness and friendship.And she had strong relationships with herfriends – too numerous to mention – but exemplified in the love and devotion of Sr. Mary Bernadette Collins and Catherine Fallon.Up to the end she valued and enjoyed her relationships with her nieces, nephews and other family members and followed their lives with interest, with love and with prayer.
In 1978 she was missioned to Ireland and worked on our Constitutions.Subsequently she was appointed as local leader to our community in Crumlin before her appointment to our Provincial Leadership team and consequent arrival here in Our Lady’s Mount in 1981.
Sr. J. Helen’s commitment to Mary Aikenhead’s charism was single-minded and she never compromised on that.The second reading confirms her attitude to life:nothing outweighs the supreme advantage of knowing Christ Jesus. It is only through Him, with Him and in Him that we can find life and happiness and fulfilment.Rooted in that conviction, she endorsed and embraced anything that served the people for whom she cared in a better, more dignified or respectful way.
She suffered in her growing debility and weakness these last years and all of us – family, community, friends and colleagues – were saddened as we watched her suffering and her struggle to cope.In spite of the wonderful, caring staff who surrounded her and the sisters and friends who were her constant support,she had difficult and dispiriting days.Yet she never gave up .Her faith in Providence was the touchstone of her life.In the midst of all her pain and letting-go she was confident that he was with her, holding her, comforting her and in the end, calling her to himself.And when that call came, sheyielded her spirit to the Lord, peace-filled, calm and trusting – blest with a death that had no struggle, no pain, no fear.And perhaps I can end with some words of hers, written in the diary of which I spoke, on her arrival in Chikuni:“Now that we have reached our Promised Land we must thank God and Our Lady for our very pleasant and on the whole easy journey which we have had . . . . “Those words echo, not only the journey to Chikuni, but her life journey, now at its end as she moves, we believe, into the fullness of the Promised land of God’s life and love.
